What I have found is rather
challenging to realize. It is because we actually create
our own misfortune and unhappy situations. They are
created by the subconscious, repeating the wounds in our
reason forgiveness is so important, is that negative
thoughts that come from our emotional wounds in our
everyday life in the past, create new similar situations
in our lives. We most of all we need to forgive ourselves
and those that are close to us, to be happy. Most of us
may actually be rather self critical, but we rarely
think of ourselves that way.
To create peace, we need to know
how the human psyche functions.
An example. A wound from the childhood when you were
not met of your needs, at a moment when your parents were
busy, may have caused the child in you to repeat
subconsciously: "Nobody sees me. They are stupid because
they don't understand how good I am at things."
then on you start interpreting life according your
The repetitions create exactly what they say: You are
not seen. The others are stupid in your eyes because
they don't see that you are good at things. The energy
system of the human beings (the chakra system) work so
that the sentences are sent out from your cells
constantly as a message to your surroundings. Your
surroundings perceive your repeating thoughts as a
truth. To say this very clearly: They work as
creating energy. So you experience situations when you
are not seen and people don't really care about your
This way, we create and create our
lives and weave our wounds into each other constantly,
so to speak. Until we see that we have to forgive, not
only our parents for not seeing us. We also need to
forgive ourselves for thinking that we were/are not seen and
cared for. This is why it's advisable to go back to the
memory to release.
To feel that we are ignored and
let down when
we are children is common and this kind of patterns is
very common and give pain in the neck when repeated. Thus
similar things happens in our lives and enforce the
repeated thoughts. Physical pain occur because our
emotions are connected to the entire
physical body by the chakra system.
My opinion is that we all need to understand this
mechanism in our psyche to live happy lives. When we
realize this and start releasing, we also see how to
meet others in a better way.
This is why peace in the world must come from the inside
of every single human being.
Greetings from Inger